This time of the year is back where i usually muse over my deeds of the past year,categorize them into 4 columns..good,bad,improve and remove.....well this assessment goes on throughout the year but this is when i actually decide what to change in and around me.I remember last year i had made a resolution by this time,to not have unnecessary arguments.i had made a long list but this was my first priority.well as resolutions are fated to be broken,inevitably even this faced the same fate.So this year am amendeing it a bit and puting it up on the list like decorations on a christmas tree.this year i realised that having a different opinion is not unusual,but what you make of it can make the issue,the person involved or you unique.Its not uncommon to dislike people,i have heard this umpteen times.but the problem i realised lies in my reasoning.its somehow like a child's,who would like or dislike anything for a a very minute or simple reason which may sound ridiculous to anyone of my age.like...this new year i was planning not to wish a few people,just to see if they would remember to,alas!they dint.and this became a simple but complex reason for me to be really silent around them...to the point where one might say i just ignore(well this is better than arguing and making a fuss)......in short i have made a few decisions like
not to be overfriendly
not to talk until its necessary around a few people(around those who dont acknowledge my existance)
not be too frank
to pull my self control up a notch......
well these are a few decisions(NOT resolutions) that i feel is i can improve,remove........
if you have suggestions or advices,please do me the favour of letting me know here.
have a great year ahead...
